In search of: Spanish speaking doula in Chicago

I got a request for a doula in Chicago via email recently. I often get these emails from folks looking for a doula with particular politics/background/values and hope to help them find the right doula. Here is the info:

My boyfriend and I are searching for an experienced, Spanish speaking doula in the Chicago area to prepare for the birth of our new baby boy – due April 7th.  We really would like to work with an Latina doula but a doula who is fluent in Spanish is fine also.  Ideally, I would like someone to help me try to have this baby without drugs and without tearing, which are my biggest fears.  While my boyfriend and I are fluent in both English and Spanish, my mother, who is a Spanish speaker will be in the delivery room and she is a nervous nelly, the doula would almost be as much for her as for me.  So if you are an experienced Latina or Spanish speaking doula in Chicago, or have the contact information of one, please email me at mdiaz@sanchezdh.com. Thx!

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My first day as an abortion doula

I arrive at the hospital around 9am, head up to the right floor, showing my volunteer ID badge to the security guard as I head toward the elevators.

I round the corner and enter the floor, delicately labeled Women’s Choices where the procedures will take place. I walk into the makeshift office/empty procedure room where the Residents/Doctors who will be performing the procedures sit debriefing the morning’s cases. I’m greeted by the Doula Project coordinator/Counselor at the hospital, and she debriefs with me about the folks on tap for the morning. While everyone is in for a first trimester abortion, the stories are different. Some are elective procedures, some are wanted pregnancies with medical issues–ectopic, fetal demise, etc.

I walk into the waiting room where the women are already wearing hospital gowns and socks, sitting nervously, quietly, waiting their turn. They are asked to arrive really early–7am–with the hope that it means most will be there by 9. I offer blankets, sometimes speaking in English and Spanish, sometimes using hand motions to communicate with patients who speak another language.

Everyone has been fasting since the night before, adding to the discomfort, tinging the air with acridity from hungry breaths. I sit, introduce myself to the patients, make polite conversation. Everyone responds differently, some want to talk, some want to sit quietly. Mostly I listen, try to remain attuned to the signals they send about whether they want company or silence.

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New Los Angeles full spectrum doula project

I got word of a new full spectrum doula project starting up in Los Angeles. They are looking for members. Check out the info below!

1.  If a doula is interested in working as a birth doula or a full-spectrum doula (or both), please email us at info@ladoulaproject.org.
2.  Requirements: doulas must be able to take at least one pro-bono birth per month and be willing to meet the clinic volunteer guidelines (more information on that when we send them the application.)
3.  Doulas must be aware that we are an organization that works with the full-spectrum of pregnancy.  If they are only comfortable working with births at this time, that’s fine, but they must be aware of that association.

And you can download the flyer here.

Yay for new full spectrum projects!

We’re a growing movement ya’ll

It’s been almost four years since I entered into the world of blogging, and almost six since I became a doula and a birth activist.

And you know what? We’re a seriously expanding movement.

It’s been absolutely amazing to watch. Since starting this blog to try and connect with other radically-minded, pro-choice, activist doulas, since collaborating with Mary and Lauren on the seeds of what have become a flourishing Doula Project in NYC, from writing this first article about some of the pioneers of the abortion doula movement.

So much has changed in such a short time.

Let’s break it down:

First of all, the birth activist movement is blowing up. We’ve got doulas coming out of our ears, amazing fired up midwives and birth activists pushing for better access to midwifery care, improved policies in hospitals, insurance coverage of midwives and home birth and doulas. We’ve got parents around the country waking up to the bad state of birth in the US, and trying to change it. We’ve got a movement of folks trying to eradicate the inhumane practice of shackling incarcerated women. We’ve got prison doula projects, volunteer doula projects, all sorts of birth activism.

Then we’ve got this amazing community of “full spectrum” doulas–folks like you and me who have a radical intersectional view of their doula work, who want to support folks in every phase of pregnancy: birth, abortion, adoption, miscarriage, even other basic reproductive health services like colposcopy.

Thanks to the amazing work of the Doula Project NYC, there are doula projects popping up around the country–in at least 4 other cities and counting.

A lot of the folks involved in this movement have been doulas for a long time, and are now expanding their services. But many of them, like me, are young, childless activists (many from the reproductive justice movement) who have been called to doula work because of this amazing intersectional stuff happening. How rad is that? I had someone tell me at an event recently–I thought all doulas were hippy earth mamas with long flowing skirts, until I met you. We’re queerer than ever before, more diverse than ever before.

We’re changing the face of birth activism every single day.

Laurel Ripple Carpenter from Cuntastic (and one of the first Radical Doula Profiles) just launched a social networking site for all of these amazing doulas, the Full Spectrum Doula Network. Check it out. Join, connect with other bad-ass doulas like yourself and let’s keep this movement growing.

I feel blessed to be a part of this amazing new wave of activism. From profiling all the amazing doulas on this blog, to helping to found the Doula Project in NYC, to coming back to the project (yay!) after years away and getting to be part of the work of a full spectrum doula again, it’s amazing to be here and to work with all of you.

So let’s keep this work going ya’ll. For serious.

New article at The Frisky on the benefits of doulas

I have an article up over at The Frisky (tagline: Life. Love. Stars. Style) about being a doula.

I don’t love the framing of it (it’s for a column called “Girl Talk”). A big part of why I started this blog was to talk about queer and gender issues in the birth community–something we’ve got a long way to go on. But I also believe in the mission of talking about doulas to all sorts of audiences, particularly ones who might not know about us. So there you go.

Here is an excerpt:

Usually, when I tell people that I’m a doula I get two questions. The first: How do you spell that? And the second: Isn’t that like a midwife?

The concept of doula, at least in the way I use it, is relatively new. The word itself comes from ancient Greek, meaning “helper” or “woman slave,” but it’s been adopted in the last 40 or so years to refer to someone who provides support to women during pregnancy and childbirth. The support a doula provides ranges from emotional cheerleading to massages and acupressure to aromatherapy and meditation. It runs a wide gamut of all things non-pharmacological, a unique service for women giving birth mostly in hospitals.

Read the rest over at The Frisky.

Two Texas volunteer doula programs

Thanks to the folks who emailed me about volunteer doula programs, we’ve got a few new ones listed!

Project H.A.P.P.Y. in Dallas Texas and Giving Austin Labor Support in Austin Texas.

Check out the resource page for programs around the country (now up to 30 and counting!).

As always if you have ones to add, please email them to me.

A labor day fundraiser: Bringing doula care to low-income folks

Hi everyone! I’m finally (and a bit reluctantly) back from vacation month. I hope everyone is enjoying the official end of summer this weekend.

Peggy from Open Arms Perinatal Services emailed me about a labor day fundraiser. Open Arms is a volunteer doula group based in the Seattle area that provides doula care (culturally matched!) to low-income folks. One thing that’s great about Open Arms is they pay their doulas the market rate, and the clients are able to access the services free of charge.

While we all volunteer our time, this type of volunteering without income is not accessible for all of us. I appreciate that Open Arms works to provide doula care to low income folks AND understands that not all doulas are able to work for free.

They are fundraising for exactly this–the funds to provide doula care to low-income folks–in honor of labor day.

They’re about $1400 away from their goal of raising enough to provide doula care to five pregnant folks.

Can you chip in in honor of labor day?

New volunteer doula programs added to resource page

Just wanted to let folks know that I’ve been adding new volunteer doula programs to the Volunteer Programs Resource Page. Thanks to everyone who has sent me info about programs!

We now have 27 programs listed, including four outside the United States!

If you know of other programs I haven’t listed, please send them my way via email.

The Doula Project (NYC) is recruiting!

I can not say enough good things about this doula organization (and that’s not just because I was one of the founders). Lauren, Mary and all the amazing folks involved with this group have taken an amazing idea–providing support to pregnant folks across the spectrum of pregnancy–and created a vibrant and radical organization.

They’re recruiting for their next training this summer. They’re looking for trained birth doulas as well as folks who want to train as abortion doulas.

All the details are here.

Vote for the Prison Birth Project as OBOS Women’s Health Heroes

Our Bodies, Ourselves, the Women’s Health organization (and well known book!) has a yearly Women’s Health Heroes contest.

This year, two awesome radical doulas, who run the Prison Birth Project in Western Massachussets, are nominees.

Go vote for them! They definitely deserve it. Voting ends tomorrow.

More about Marianne and Lisa after the jump.

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